• People around you are different. The way you respond to their behavior could distinguish you like a person who is able to cope with the conflicts or like someone who still must work on your character. The good news is that conflict is an essential part of your life.
  • The conflicts inside you are possible too. They are the result of your new views. They can meet your old principles and cause your inner conflict which tries to stick you to your old beliefs, but at the same time you do not wish to stew in your own juice.
 
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The teacher's blames

As a matter of fact, every teacher learns teaching for many years. Theoretically, he/she is professional and he/she ought to know how to teach. If it is the truth, why does your teacher make you feel discomfort every time when you get bad mark? Especially, he/she used to do it in frond of the class in spite of the fact that you are a strong student. Especially, he/she used to blame you in the very offensive words. Actually, why? And, the most important question, what to do? You do not wish to confront with your teacher, but at the same time you feel that you become less interested in the subject.

So, try to feel yourself in your teacher's shoes. The teachers make mistakes as well. Their flexibility and empathy are not stronger than yours sometimes. Perhaps, he/she is to be a little bit more experienced. Of course, you can make him/her feel uncomfortable replying in the same bad manner, but remember that it is his workplace and he/she could hardly find another one. If your teacher is too strict or impolite towards you, try to speak to him/her in person and point out the reasons of the conflict.

Another issue is if your teacher displays himself as a very rude and aggressive person who humiliates your self-esteem in front of your friends and schoolmates and lowers your reputation, especially, if you are not so popular teen at school. Such people hardly can work with children. Perhaps, they have so serious personal problems or no talents to teaching. Of course, the last decision is to be for the director or senior teacher. If you afraid to let him/her know, do it with your friends. But you should be ready to explain your decision as it is connected with the personal fate. If you are sure in your point of view, go forward.