• People around you are different. The way you respond to their behavior could distinguish you like a person who is able to cope with the conflicts or like someone who still must work on your character. The good news is that conflict is an essential part of your life.
  • The conflicts inside you are possible too. They are the result of your new views. They can meet your old principles and cause your inner conflict which tries to stick you to your old beliefs, but at the same time you do not wish to stew in your own juice.
 
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Remember the gold rule of any conflict situation – the main goal is to solve it, but not to be a winner whatever it costs you. There is nothing bad if you are the first who accepts the mistake and says “sorry”.

Non-verbal symptoms of conflicts

Intuition is a good prompter in the conflict situations. Usually, it helps you to foresee the unusual situations and prevent them until they develop into more serious problems. Thoughtful and empathetic people could notice the coming hurricane in the teen mind easier. Non-verbal signs are to help you in it. The teens usually choose the following conduct models. Sudden silence or escaping is the first symptom of offence that could lead to the hidden conflict. Aggressive scrappy phrases or evil sight are the symptoms too. He/she does not pay attention to you, tries to avoid the communication, display his/her inattention, and chooses another partner for the lesson. He/she is speaking to you, but do not look straightly. If your friend does not want to speak to you unexpectedly, start the conversation first. Perhaps, the reason is just the visit to the dentist.

Anyway, it is easy to mix conflict mood with just low mood. They say that regular ignoring is to make you worry about your relationships with a person who does not care of you any more.

In your teen ages you start friendship usually, some friendship lasts for many years, some friendship ends with the school matters because of the trifle conflicts. An empathetic person is able to find the way out and get along well. So, be attentive to your friends and keep warm relationships with them.

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