Conflict and attention

Attention is that indicator that helps us to understand how important we are. It supports our self-esteem. In some cases, attention helps to achieve the goals – for your parents' or beloved person sake. Someone who feels lack of attention tries to attract it with the possible methods. As a matter of fact, the most popular method among the teenagers is making conflicts. A teen becomes aggressive, weak, hot-tempered, so, create every possible opportunity to provoke somebody for the arguing, discussion, screaming, fighting. It seems to be just a desire to argue for the principles and ideas, but to understand the problems, sometimes it turns out that there is not any problem. A teenager just wishes to be remarkable.

This desire is the result of the unsolved inner problems. Usually such teenagers suffer from depression, stress, bad studying, lack of self-confidence, uncertainty at his/her future. The reasons could be personal like parents' divorce, inattention of his/her parents because of the young sibling, low mood etc. Anyway, such anti-social behaviour is the result of the personal troubles. A teenager breaks himself/herself with the regular thoughts of his/her weakness or boredom. It seems to him that people do not notice him even if they stand in front of him/her or do not hear in the friendly conversation. Too sensitive accepting of the events leads to higher aggressiveness and anger burst.

So, as you see, the problems are to be settled beginning with the reasons. Absence of dissatisfaction source makes a person return to the happy lifestyle.